Temporary friendship, called tatkalika maitri in Vedic astrology, is a relationship between two planets that holds only within a particular chart. The rule is positional. Count from the sign a planet occupies, treating that sign as the first: any planet in the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 10th, 11th, or 12th sign from it is its temporary friend, and any planet in the same sign or in the 5th, 6th, 7th, 8th, or 9th is its temporary enemy. Nearness makes friends. Blended with the permanent natural friendships, the result is the five-grade compound relationship, panchadha maitri, that astrologers actually use.
This page works the rule in detail, then the blend. For the fixed natural table it combines with, and for why planetary friendship matters at all, start at the planetary friendships and the friend and enemy table.
The counting rule
Stand on any planet and count signs, beginning with its own sign as the first. The positions sort cleanly into two sets, given in the Brihat Parashara Hora Shastra and repeated in the Phaladeepika.
| Position from the planet (its own sign = 1st) | Temporary relationship |
|---|---|
| 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 10th, 11th, 12th | Friend |
| 1st (same sign), 5th, 6th, 7th, 8th, 9th | Enemy |
The count runs through whole signs, in zodiac order, and degrees within a sign play no part. Every planet in the chart gets sorted into one of the two sets, with no neutral category at this layer: temporarily, another planet is either a friend or an enemy.
A worked example
Say Mars sits in Aries and Venus in Gemini. Counting Aries as the first sign, Taurus is the second and Gemini the third, so Venus stands in the 3rd from Mars and is, for this chart, Mars's temporary friend. A planet in Libra, the 7th from Aries, would be a temporary enemy of Mars instead.
Now count the other way. From Gemini, Aries is the 11th sign, so Mars is Venus's temporary friend too. That mutuality is guaranteed by the geometry: the 2nd pairs with the 12th, the 3rd with the 11th, and the 4th with the 10th, so whenever one planet sees a friend, the friend sees one back. The enemy positions pair the same way, the 5th with the 9th, the 6th with the 8th, the 7th and the 1st with themselves.
Why nearness makes friends
The idea behind the rule is human. Planets that stand near one another in the sky keep close company and grow friendly; those far apart, and especially those facing each other across the chart, stay strangers. The friendly zone is exactly the three signs on either side of a planet's seat.
This is what lets a chart override temperament for a while. The Sun and Saturn are natural enemies in every chart ever cast, yet in a chart where they occupy adjacent signs, each stands in the 2nd or 12th from the other, and the two become temporary friends. The fixed table says who the planets are; the temporary table says how this particular sky seats them.
Planets in the same sign
Two planets sharing one sign are temporary enemies. The same sign is the 1st position, and the friendly list covers only the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 10th, 11th, and 12th, so conjunction falls on the enemy side of the line along with the 5th through 9th.
That can feel surprising, since planets in close conjunction are often read as working together. There is no contradiction: conjunction is judged by its own rules, while temporary friendship asks a narrower question, namely how the welcome between two planets shifts in this chart. The tradition's image fits the answer: two courtiers given a single chair rarely grow fonder of each other.
The friendly zone, pictured
A quick way to hold the rule in the mind: the friendly zone is the three signs immediately ahead of a planet and the three immediately behind it. Wherever a planet sits, its temporary friends occupy the band wrapped closely around it, and its temporary enemies occupy everything farther off, including its own seat.
Run that test pairwise across a chart and every planet ends up with its own short list of temporary friends and enemies, different from every other planet's list and different again in the next chart. Computing the full set takes a minute by hand; the point of doing it is the blend that comes next.
Blending the layers: the five grades
The compound relationship, panchadha maitri or the five-fold friendship, blends natural and temporary into one final grade. Where the two layers agree, the relationship deepens to an extreme; where they disagree, it settles in the middle. Six combinations produce five grades.
| Natural relationship | Temporary relationship | Compound grade |
|---|---|---|
| Friend | Friend | Great friend (adhimitra) |
| Neutral | Friend | Friend (mitra) |
| Friend | Enemy | Neutral (sama) |
| Enemy | Friend | Neutral (sama) |
| Neutral | Enemy | Enemy (shatru) |
| Enemy | Enemy | Great enemy (adhishatru) |
This compound grade is the relationship that gets used. When an astrologer says a planet sits in a great friend's sign, both layers have been computed and blended: the visiting planet's natural relationship to the sign's owner, and the temporary relationship between the two as they stand in this chart.
Saturn in Cancer: the blend at work
Picture Saturn in Cancer. Cancer is the Moon's sign, and Saturn counts the Moon among its natural enemies, so by the fixed table alone this is an enemy placement, Saturn working against the grain in an unwelcoming house.
Now place the Moon in Virgo, the 3rd sign from Cancer. By position the Moon is Saturn's temporary friend, and a natural enemy joined with a temporary friend blends to neutral. The chill thaws; Saturn settles and gives more graciously. Place the Moon in Capricorn instead, the 7th from Cancer, and the layers agree the other way: natural enemy, temporary enemy, compound great enemy, the hardest posting the system names. Even then Saturn still works and still gives. A great enemy is a hard landlord, not an eviction.
What the five grades mean in a reading
A planet in a great friend's sign acts almost as it does at home, warm and freely giving, with little friction anywhere. A simple friend's sign is comfortable. A neutral's sign is workmanlike and plain: the planet does its job without warmth or chill, and these middle grades are where most of any chart quietly lives.
An enemy's sign brings real friction, and a great enemy's sign the slowest going of all, with the planet's gifts arriving late and dearly bought. The grade describes the smoothness of delivery, never whether the planet matters. A benefic in a friend's sign is kindness made comfortable; a malefic in an enemy's sign is a harder lesson, though never an unworkable one.
One thread among many
Temporary friendship and the compound grades are one thread in a full reading. They are weighed beside the planet's dignity, where the friendship grades themselves occupy the middle rungs between exaltation and debilitation, and beside the house the planet occupies and the aspects it receives. No single thread decides a chart.
What the thread explains, once you can read it, is why a planet behaves as it does: why the same Saturn that labours in one chart settles down in another, with both Saturns standing in Cancer. To trace it through your own chart, a free birth chart lists every planet's sign; the counting rule on this page and the fixed table on the friend and enemy page turn that list into grades.